{"id":11951,"date":"2023-05-05T18:29:38","date_gmt":"2023-05-05T18:29:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tolagbe.com\/upgrade\/?p=11951"},"modified":"2023-05-05T18:36:16","modified_gmt":"2023-05-05T18:36:16","slug":"dope-black-kid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tolagbe.com\/upgrade\/2023\/05\/05\/dope-black-kid\/","title":{"rendered":"Dope Black Kid"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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\u00a0<\/b>I\u2019m a mother of two dark-skinned, unequivocally black boys who will one day be black men. I\u2019m pulling a double shift; simultaneously showing them that a strong black woman deserves ease and softness and teaching them to be kind in a world that all too often doesn\u2019t see their humanity.<\/span><\/p>

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I\u2019ve recently had to talk about modulating your tone, taking a deep breath, and trying to be non-confrontational with my number one. I think it broke both of our hearts. As for the little one, how do I tell him that his irrepressible wit and charm won\u2019t always be enough?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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